I used this song when proposing to my wife. If you asked me what "our song" is, this would be one of the candidates. The lyrics are great, because we live in a world that feels divorce is an alternative to marriage. People are too scared to make a long term commitment and sit ready to file for divorce at the first sign of trouble. Marriage is hard work, it takes time, energy, and effort to build a strong marriage. If you bail out at the first sign of difficulty, you are going to miss out on the great blessings and joy that come from being married. I wish we could bring down the divorce rate in our country, because it has gotten out of hand. Divorce is there for a good reason, but it gets abused every single day.Ben Harper "Forever"
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Not talkin' 'bout a year
no not three or four
I don't want that kind of forever
in my life anymore
forever always seems
to be around when it begins
but forever never seems
to be around when it ends
so give me your forever
please your forever
not a day less will do
from you
People spend so much time
every single day
runnin' 'round all over town
givin' their forever away
but no not me
I won't let my forever roam
and now I hope I can find
my forever a home
so give me your forever
please your forever
not a day less will do
from you
Like a handless clock with numbers
an infinite of time
no not the forever found
only in the mind
forever always seems
to be around when things begin
but forever never seems
to be around when things end
so give me your forever
please your forever
not a day less will do
from you



1 comments:
I love the lyrics & completely agree with your post. Marriage does take a lot of work & commitment. In a high school psychology class a discussion was brought up about the high divorce rate. The solution offered? Change marriage vows, something like: "For better or worse, for the next 7 years". No joke.
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